Find Rest & Healing with Us (14)

In the Wave 1 article, we explored the distinction between solitude and loneliness; discussed three essential aspects of life – spirit, soul, and body – that everyone needs to complete, and briefly addressed how to overcome loneliness. In wave 2, let’s dive deeper into the nature of loneliness.

Loneliness is a feeling of dissatisfaction with the quality and quantity of one’s relationship with others. There are two types of loneliness: social loneliness and emotional loneliness. Social loneliness often arises when we find ourselves in unfamiliar circumstances – moving to a new city or even a new country for a job or school, far from family and friends; losing someone dear to us; or facing prolonged illness, isolated in a hospital. This type relates closely to the “body” aspect of life. On the other end, emotional loneliness is more about the “soul” aspect. It emerges when we feel unheard or no one understands our deeper concerns and needs, even when surrounded by others – perhaps you’re with friends but sense they don’t truly know you, or your family is nearby yet their love feels distant. Whether grappling with social or emotional loneliness, our instinct is often to seek someone to connect with.

But consider this warning from the Bible:

“My son, if sinners entice you,
Do not consent.
If they say, ‘Come with us,
Let us lie in wait to shed blood;
Let us lurk secretly for the innocent without cause;
Let us swallow them alive like Sheol,
And whole, like those who go down to the Pit;
We shall find all kinds of precious possessions,
We shall fill our houses with spoil;
Cast in your lot among us,
Let us all have one purse’” (Proverbs 1:10-14)

Reading the verses, do you notice a recurring theme? It’s the emphasis on “we and us.” When loneliness deepens into despair and turns into depress, we become vulnerable because we can’t see God anymore. The world may seize this weakness, tempting us with a false sense of belonging, luring us into actions that disobey God under the guise of togetherness. Another repeated idea stands out: the pursuit of “more.” Loneliness often stems from failing to recognize what we truly have. Yet, God has provided everything we need. When we finally grasp the abundance of His love, we share it, passing His love to the next lonely soul we meet. Because Jesus said, “And as you go, preach, saying, ‘The kingdom of heaven is at hand.’ Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out demons, Freely you have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:7-8)

We encourage you to learn more about our Lord Jesus Christ. Come join us to find peace and love in Him, and you will discover that loneliness fades when you know God is with you always.

We warmly welcome you to our upcoming Spring 2025 Evangelical Service and Spiritual Convocation (ESSC). You can also join us for the Spring 2025 ESSC via online streaming.

Thursday, April 17, 2025 6:50 PM to 8:10 PM
Friday and Saturday, April 18-19, 2025 9:00 AM to 8:10 PM
Sunday, April 20, 2025 9:00 AM to 1:00 PM

Please find our church location below:

True Jesus Church
4N550 Church Road
Bensenville, IL 60106
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In the meantime, please feel free to join us for our regular Sabbath (Friday evening and Saturday) services online or in-person.

Friday Evening Service:  7:50PM – 9:00PM

Saturday Morning Service:  10:50AM – 12:00Noon

Saturday Afternoon Service:  1:30PM – 2:40PM

Email us at ilovejesus@tjc-chicago.org