Balancing Family Life in a Connected World
In this modern day and age, we find ourselves constantly connected, whether it’s through social media, work emails, or even just the endless stream of news and entertainment. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of life, but where does that leave our families? How do we maintain a balance that honors God amidst our busy schedules?
When I come home from work, I’m often tempted to unwind by scrolling through Facebook or catching up on the latest TV shows. But as I do that, I sometimes wonder: Am I neglecting the time I could be spending with my family? Am I missing out on the opportunity to nurture those relationships that God has entrusted to me?
The Bible reminds us, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Romans 12:2). In a world that constantly pulls us in a hundred different directions, it’s crucial to step back and realign our priorities with God’s will.
As believers, we are called to be ambassadors for Christ, representing Him not just to the world but also within our own homes. Paul tells us in 2 Corinthians 5:20, “Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading through us: we implore you on Christ’s behalf, be reconciled to God.” This verse reminds us that our role as Christ’s representatives begins at home. How we interact with our family members, how we love, serve, and forgive one another, reflect our faith and can draw our loved ones closer to God. When we prioritize our family’s spiritual health, we are fulfilling our role as ambassadors, showing the love of Christ in a tangible way.
Family is a gift from God, and He calls us to cherish and nurture these relationships. In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, we are instructed to keep God’s words in our hearts and “teach them diligently to your children and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.” This isn’t just about formal teaching but about making God’s presence felt in every moment we spend together as a family.
One of the most powerful ways to find balance is by making time for intentional family worship and prayer. When we gather as a family to pray, read the Bible, or simply share our thoughts and experiences, we create an environment where God’s love can flourish. This doesn’t have to be a long, formal session; even a few minutes together can make a huge difference. “But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).
Let’s also be mindful of the example we set for our children. They are watching how we spend our time and what we prioritize. By showing them that family comes first, not just in words but in our actions, we can help them grow into Godly men and women who understand the importance of balance in their own lives.
So, as we move forward into this new season, let’s commit to finding that balance. Let’s make our homes places where God is honored, where love is felt, and where our families can grow closer not just to each other, but to the Lord as well.
We warmly invite you to join us at our church for the upcoming Fall Evangelical Service and Spiritual Convocation in September. The event’s theme is “All Things Become New”. We hope that you will be motivated to embark on a journey of personal renewal and foster the creation of more resilient and affectionate familial bonds. You can also join us for the Fall ESSC via online streaming. Here’s the ESSC schedule:
Thursday, September 26, 2024 6:50PM to 8:10PM
Friday and Saturday, September 27-28, 2024 9:00AM to 8:10PM
Sunday, September 29, 2024 9:00AM to 1:00PM
Complimentary lunch and dinner will be served.
Please find our church location below:
4N550 Church Road
Bensenville, IL 60106
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In the meantime, please feel free to join us for our regular Sabbath (Friday evening and Saturday) services online or in-person.
Friday Evening Service: 7:50PM – 9:00PM
Saturday Morning Service: 10:50AM – 12:00Noon
Saturday Afternoon Service: 1:30PM – 2:40PM
Email us at ilovejesus@tjc-chicago.org