{"id":6988,"date":"2023-09-11T17:38:38","date_gmt":"2023-09-11T22:38:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/?page_id=6988"},"modified":"2024-11-13T19:49:23","modified_gmt":"2024-11-14T01:49:23","slug":"2023-spring-essc-familybalance-3-ia-1","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/zh\/2023-spring-essc-familybalance-3-ia-1\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>\u795e\u8056\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"6988\" class=\"elementor elementor-6988\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e93197 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e93197\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6e5509ba\" data-id=\"6e5509ba\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a525b48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"6a525b48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><div class=\"trp_language_switcher_shortcode\">\n<div class=\"trp-language-switcher trp-language-switcher-container\" data-no-translation >\n    <div class=\"trp-ls-shortcode-current-language\">\n        <a href=\"#\" class=\"trp-ls-shortcode-disabled-language trp-ls-disabled-language\" title=\"\u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\" onclick=\"event.preventDefault()\">\n\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trp-flag-image\" src=\"\/wp-content\/plugins\/translatepress-multilingual\/assets\/images\/flags\/zh_TW.png\" width=\"18\" height=\"12\" alt=\"zh_TW\" title=\"\u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\"> \u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\t\t<\/a>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"trp-ls-shortcode-language\">\n                <a href=\"#\" class=\"trp-ls-shortcode-disabled-language trp-ls-disabled-language\"  title=\"\u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\" onclick=\"event.preventDefault()\">\n\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trp-flag-image\" src=\"\/wp-content\/plugins\/translatepress-multilingual\/assets\/images\/flags\/zh_TW.png\" width=\"18\" height=\"12\" alt=\"zh_TW\" title=\"\u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\"> \u7e41\u9ad4\u4e2d\u6587\t\t<\/a>\n                    <a href=\"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/6988#TRPLINKPROCESSED\" title=\"English\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trp-flag-image\" src=\"\/wp-content\/plugins\/translatepress-multilingual\/assets\/images\/flags\/en_US.png\" width=\"18\" height=\"12\" alt=\"en_US\" title=\"English\"> English        <\/a>\n\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/6988#TRPLINKPROCESSED\" title=\"\u7b80\u4f53\u4e2d\u6587\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trp-flag-image\" src=\"\/wp-content\/plugins\/translatepress-multilingual\/assets\/images\/flags\/zh_CN.png\" width=\"18\" height=\"12\" alt=\"zh_CN\" title=\"\u7b80\u4f53\u4e2d\u6587\"> \u7b80\u4f53\u4e2d\u6587        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <script type=\"application\/javascript\">\n        \/\/ need to have the same with set from JS on both divs. Otherwise it can push stuff around in HTML\n        var trp_ls_shortcodes = document.querySelectorAll('.trp_language_switcher_shortcode .trp-language-switcher');\n        if ( trp_ls_shortcodes.length > 0) {\n            \/\/ get the last language switcher added\n            var trp_el = trp_ls_shortcodes[trp_ls_shortcodes.length - 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My heart was initially shrouded with resistance towards matrimony. However, through divine intervention and the profound teachings of the Bible, my viewpoint underwent a transformation, making me realize that marriage is indeed a union ordained by God.<\/p><p>One aspect that often divides young believers like me is the practice of arranged marriages. I remember reflecting on the story of Abraham orchestrating Isaac&#8217;s marriage to Rebecca and pondering its significance in today&#8217;s world. The age-old tradition is frequently deemed restrictive, seemingly robbing individuals of their choices. But delving deeper, I&#8217;ve come to realize that it&#8217;s a testament to the unwavering faith and respect we hold for the wisdom of our ancestors. Regardless of how the union comes about, it is imperative to remember that a marriage grounded in shared faith reflects God&#8217;s design.<\/p><p>Choosing a life partner based on individual preference isn&#8217;t a straightforward journey either. I&#8217;ve observed that our personal choices can be clouded by biases, possible myopia, and pitfalls in nurturing relationships. Today&#8217;s dating culture, though modern, often runs the risk of becoming fleeting ventures without lasting commitment. Hence, I&#8217;ve come to believe that if one opts for dating, it should be with the genuine intention of marriage, always under the wise counsel of trusted spiritual mentors.<\/p><p>Through my reflections, I&#8217;ve grown to see traditional marital introductions in a new light. They&#8217;re more than mere customs; they signify the benevolence and blessings of our elders. The journey of life, especially our marital choices, blossoms beautifully when we surrender to God&#8217;s plan.<\/p><p>For fellow believers awaiting their nuptial voyage, I&#8217;ve understood that the virtue lies in trusting God\u2019s divine timing. These moments of waiting can be moments of spiritual enrichment, dedicating oneself to God&#8217;s service, and preparing our souls for the companions He chooses for us. I firmly believe that our Heavenly Father, in His infinite wisdom, orchestrates unions that reflect His divine plan. You can watch a short video <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=cXmqmqx0mJE\">\u201cWhen am I ready for marriage?\u201d\u00a0<\/a><\/p><p>When two souls come together in marriage, blessed by the Almighty, they form a holy alliance. As I envision my future household, I imagine it as one where Christ-like qualities reign supreme, where couples resort to divine guidance during tribulations and where love for God takes precedence. A truly rewarding marriage extends beyond human understanding; it is a covenant with God. Such partnerships echo the deep love Christ holds for His church. When two individuals love selflessly, with God steering their journey, they attain a richer comprehension of His endless love.<\/p><p>In my heart, I feel that the magnificent blessing of sacred matrimony is within reach for all who believe in Christ. As we fervently love, uphold His truths, and seek guidance from the Holy Spirit, we journey towards the marital ideal God dreams for us. As aptly encapsulated in <em><i>Mark 10:9<\/i><\/em>, <em><i>&#8220;Therefore, what God has joined together, let not man separate.&#8221;<\/i><\/em><\/p><p>I earnestly hope you&#8217;ll accompany many like me on this faith journey, enriching your life. Please take the first step to join us for a service in-person or online at our church.<\/p><p>Our church is located at:<\/p><p><b>4N550 Church Road<br \/><\/b><b>Bensenville,\u00a0<abbr title=\"Illinois\">IL<\/abbr>\u00a060106<br \/><\/b><i aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/place\/True+Jesus+Church+Chicago\/@41.945266,-87.9536702,18.39z\/data=!4m14!1m7!3m6!1s0x880fb39f5fbd433d:0x72d82c41e185bf3e!2s4+S+Church+Rd,+Bensenville,+IL+60106!3b1!8m2!3d41.9448745!4d-87.9534209!3m5!1s0x880fb3a1e4e2dd49:0xd44299b704de1192!8m2!3d41.9453743!4d-87.9533863!16s%2Fg%2F1tdn02z1?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>\u00a0Google Maps<\/b><\/a><\/p><p>For online streaming, please\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/service\/live-sabbath-service\/\">click here<\/a>.<\/p><p>For regular service hours, please\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/tjc-chicago.org\/\">click here<\/a>.<b><\/b><\/p><p>Email us at\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:ilovejesus@tjc-chicago.org\">ilovejesus@tjc-chicago.org<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Divine Matrimony: A Journey of Faith and Understanding As I walked my faith journey, the sanctity of marriage was a concept I grappled with for quite some time. 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